How to make a speech By George Plimpton

International Paper asked George Plimpton, who writes books about facing the sports pros (like “Paper Lion” and “Shadow Box”), and who’s in demand to speak about it, to tell you how to face the fear of making a speech.

One of life’s terrors for the uninitiated is to be asked to make a speech.
“Why me?” will probably be your first reaction. “I don’t have anything to say.” It should be reassuring (though it rarely is) that since you were asked, somebody must think you do. The fact is that each one of us has a store of material which should be of interest to others. There is no reason why it should not be adapted to a speech.

Why know how to speak?
Scary as it is, it is important for anyone to be able to speak in front of others, whether twenty around a conference table or a hall filled with a thousand faces.

Being able to speak can mean better grades in any class. It can mean talking the town council out of increasing your property taxes. It can mean talking top management into buying your plan.

How to pick a topic
You were probably asked to speak in the first place in the hope that you would be able to articulate about something that interests you a lot. Still, it helps to find out about your audience first. Who are they? Why are they there? What are they interested in? How much do they already know about your subject? One kind of talk would be appropriate for the Women’s Club of Columbus, Ohio, and quite another for the guests at the Vince Lombardi dinner.

How to plan what to say
Here is where you must do your homework.
The more you sweat in advance, the less you’ll have to sweat once you appear on stage. Research your topic thoroughly. Check the library for facts, quotes, books and timely magazine and newspaper articles on your subject. Get in touch with experts. Write to them, make phone calls, get interviews to help nourish your speech. Rehearse your talk—and learn—for learning means self-confidence. You’ll discover how much confidence that knowledge will inspire.

Now start organizing and writing. Most authorities agree that a good speech breaks down into three basic parts—an introduction, the body of the speech, and the summation.

Introduction: An audience makes up its mind very quickly. Once the mood of an audience is set, it is very hard to change it, which is why introduction is so important. The mood of the introduction is to be lighthearted and enticing. It can start off by telling a good-natured story about yourself.

But be careful of jokes, especially the shaggy-dog variety. For some reason, the joke that convulses guests in a living room tends to suffer as it emerges through the amplifying system into a public gathering place.

Main body: There are four main intents in the body of the well-made speech. These are 1) to entertain, which is probably the hardest; 2) to instruct, which is the easiest if the speaker has done the research and knows the subject; 3) to persuade, which one does at a sales presentation, a political rally, or a town meeting; and finally, 4) to inspire, which is what the speaker is perhaps seeking in the graduation talk, in a sermon, or at the pep rally.

Hurry-Up Yost, who coached Michigan’s football team for twenty-five years, once gave a particularly inspiring talk to the members of a sales force who had come in from all over the country for a dinner. He got carried away and at the final exhortation held his team up by picking the wrong locker-room metaphor. (He urged the sales force to dive into the swimming pool.)

Summation: This should be where you “ask for the order.” In ending should incorporate a sentence or two which sounds like an ending—a short summary of the main points of the speech, perhaps, or the repetition of a phrase that the speaker has hoped to convey. It is valuable to have a fairly clear idea of the last sentence or two as something which might produce applause. Perfectly acceptable phrases are perfectly acceptable. (“And now I would like to signal my conclusion by saying: “In closing…” or “I have one last thing to say…”)

Once done—fully written, or the main

The RIDE methodology

Ever feel like your dreams are trapped behind a wall of obstacles, both seen and unseen? You’re not alone. But what if those obstacles could be transformed into stepping stones? The RIDE methodology unlocks the secret: Reflecting on your deepest desires, Investigating your blockers, Doing practical tasks for progress, and Elevating your future self. This infographic is your roadmap to self-improvement, showing you how RIDE can pave the way to a fulfilling future.

R: Reflect on Your Inner Compass Before embarking, pause and ask, “What truly matters to me?” Like Anna, who dreamt of becoming a renowned author, identify your burning desire. This, like Anna’s moment of clarity, is your guiding star. Remember, Lao Tzu reminds us, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” Yours starts with identifying your destination.

I: Investigate Your Inner Dragons No hero slays the dragon without understanding it. Here, face your “dragons” – those self-doubts, fears, or limiting beliefs that hinder your progress. Michael, a talented musician, discovered his dragon was stage fright, rooted in past failures. Only by acknowledging and confronting this fear could he conquer his stage and shine. Remember, as the Zen proverb says, “Obstacles do not block the path, they are the path.” Use them to grow stronger.

D: Do the Daily Dance of Progress Dreams are beautiful, but action is the bridge to reality. Divide your journey into small, actionable steps, like laying stones across a river. Sarah, who yearned to run a marathon, broke her goal into daily runs, gradually increasing the distance. Each step, like Sarah’s, is a victory, building strength and turning dreams into achievable goals. Channel Pablo Picasso’s wisdom: “Action is the foundational key to all success.” Take action, one step at a time.

E: Elevate Your Future Self Imagine your future self, successful and thriving. This vision, like John’s dream of leading his own startup, becomes your wind in the sails. It propels you forward, even through storms. Abraham Lincoln said, “The best way to predict your future is to create it.” So create your future, one step at a time.

The RIDE is More Than a Map, It’s a Philosophy RIDE isn’t just a strategy, it’s a way of life. Reflecting gives direction, investigating empowers you to overcome, doing builds momentum, and envisioning propels you forward. Remember, the journey itself holds the beauty, the growth, and the discoveries. As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Life is a journey, not a destination.” Embrace the RIDE, dear adventurer, and transform your path into a journey of endless possibility.

The Burnt Toast Theory

The Burnt Toast Theory is an intriguing concept that proposes we should learn to accept imperfection and appreciate the small things in life. According to this theory, when we accidentally burn a slice of toast, we should simply scrape off the burnt part and enjoy the rest, recognizing that although it may not be perfect, it is still edible and enjoyable. This philosophy can be applied to various aspects of life, reminding us to find happiness in the imperfect moments and accept that things may not always go as planned.

Popularized by renowned author and motivational speaker Teri Garr in her book “Speedbumps: Flooring it through Hollywood,” the Burnt Toast Theory encourages us to embrace the reality of our lives and let go of unrealistic expectations. It highlights that while society often places a high value on perfection and success, imperfection can be just as beautiful and meaningful. By accepting our flaws and enjoying the small things, we can find fulfillment in life’s imperfect moments.

As experienced professionals, we may encounter situations where things do not go as planned or where we make mistakes. The Burnt Toast Theory serves as a powerful reminder that we should not be too hard on ourselves or let setbacks hold us back. Instead, we should scrape off the burnt parts, learn from our mistakes, and move forward. By doing so, we can find joy in even the most challenging situations and approach life with a more positive and resilient mindset.

In conclusion, the Burnt Toast Theory is a simple but powerful concept that can have a profound impact on how we approach life. By embracing imperfection and finding happiness in the small things, we can live a more fulfilling and meaningful life, both professionally and personally.