Children by Khalil Gibran

And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, ‘Speak to us of Children.’
And he said:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,

And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts.

For they have their own thoughts.

You may house their bodies but not their souls,

For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.

You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.

For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.

The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.

Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;

For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

The 70-20-10 model

The 70-20-10 model states that we grow as a combination of on-the-job, social, and formal learning i.e., 70% of your professional growth will come from the work experiences you have, 20% will come from your interactions with others, and 10% will come from formal education.

originAs experiences accelerate your growth trajectory, you need to understand which experiences will help you reach your target growth. Have you identified your destination?

First law of Emotional Thermodynamics

The first law of emotional thermodynamics states that emotional energy cannot be created nor destroyed. It can only be transformed from one form to another.
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We must trust that no matter what happens we have the skills, knowledge and experience we need to face whatever lies ahead. We must believe in our capacity to learn and fill any skills gaps we need to thrive, not just survive. To increase our confidence, we must get really clear on our Unique Value Proposition. The sum of: Our skills, knowledge, experience, achievements. The positive impact of our actions on companies, clients and those around us.

Our personality, values and emotional intelligence. We must identify any gaps that are feeding into our self-doubt and take whatever action we can to fill those gaps. When you have conviction in yourself, you will KNOW no matter what happens – you will be OK. And others will have conviction in you too.